What is prostate massage and is it worth doing
This is an easy way to grope for a man's G-spot and possibly improve an erection.
What is the prostate
The prostate is one of the most important elements of the male reproductive system. This isgland about the size of a walnut, located between the bladder and rectum, about where the penis begins.
Its main task is the production of fluid, which makes the sperm liquid and mobile. But the prostate, or prostate gland, has other functions as well. They made doctors, and then other people, think about massaging the gland.
Why do prostate massage
From a medical point of view, massage is an easy way to rid the prostate gland of excess fluid that has accumulated in its ducts.
Let's say right away: unequivocal evidence that this is useful,
No... But some limited research suggests that prostate massage can actually make men's life easier and more enjoyable.
1. Massage can improve erection
Prior to more modern therapies, prostate stimulation was used to treat erectile dysfunction . Today, erection problems are treated with lifestyle changes, medications and prosthetics.
But some men claim that thanks to the massage of the prostate, their sexual desire increases, the pleasure from intercourse increases and ejaculation becomes easier. There is no scientific evidence for this, but doctors do not mind.
2. Eases the condition of prostatitis and prostate enlargement
Prostatitis is an inflammation of the prostate gland. It is accompanied by edema, the prostate increases in size and begins to press on the surrounding tissues. The consequences of this are pain in the groin, as well as discomfort when urinating.
Massage removes excess fluid from the gland and reduces swelling. Therefore, the procedure is sometimes prescribed to relieve symptoms of prostatitis or an enlarged prostate.
3. It helps identify prostate problems
The urologist sometimes massages the gland to obtain fluid for analysis. In this way, signs of infection (if any) can be detected and an accurate diagnosis can be made.
4. Massage can help with painful ejaculation
Painful sensations during ejaculation is an infrequent but still encountered problem. Prostate massage can make the semen thinner and make it easier for it to exit the penis.
5. Able to deliver an orgasm
And this is the main reason why not doctors, but everyone else became interested in prostate massage. The prostate gland is called the male G-spot . And she is much more predictable than women.
First, it is easy to find: unlike the elusive and almost mythical female G, the location of the prostate is precisely known.
Secondly, stimulation of the prostate gland often leads to a quick and powerful male orgasm. Moreover, despite the fact that the penis remains non-erect, a certain amount of a whitish liquid, similar to thick milk, is sometimes released from it - the secretion of the prostate. This process is called chaste ejaculation in some BDSM practitioners.
There is also a version that by regularly massaging the male G-spot, you can reduce the risk of prostate cancer. There is no direct scientific evidence for this. But there are indirect ones: it is known that five or more orgasms per week
reduce the risk of prostate cancer by 36%. So, while experiencing the pleasure of massage, men may also take care of their health at the same time.
Is it worth doing a prostate massage
This is a rather slippery question. Medicsrecommend stimulate the prostate gland only if indicated and with the help of a qualified specialist who has received appropriate training.
If you plan on doing prostate massage at home, for example as part of a sex game, be extremely careful. Too intense movements with a finger or a massager, strong pressure can damage the gland and disrupt the functioning of the male reproductive system.
If after a prostate massage a man feels pain, he needs to see a urologist as soon as possible.
However, if you really want to diversify your sex life, try it all the same can... But only as carefully as possible, observing important safety rules.
How to do prostate massage
1. Get consent
Prostate massage is a pleasure for two. Before deciding on it, make sure that this is the desire of both partners.
2. Make sure there are no contraindications
Prostate stimulation is contraindicated if the host has:
- there are cracks and other damage in the anus;
- bladder problems;
- any infectious processes in the genital area.
3. Observe hygiene
To get to the prostate, you need to insert your finger into the anus. And the issue of cleanliness here is one of the key ones, otherwise both partners may feel awkward. Therefore, before starting the massage, preparation is necessary.
- A man needs to go to the toilet.
- Then take a shower, paying special attention to the area of future action, or at least thoroughly cleaning the anus with wet wipes (not alcohol: they can cause irritation).
- You can use an enema, but this is an optional moment.
4. Prepare your hands for penetration
It is worth cutting your nails in advance, cutting off sharp burrs, removing rings from your fingers. Ideally, place a condom or latex glove over the penetrating finger.
5. Take care of the lubrication
There should be a lot of it, and this is an important point that allows you to prevent chafing or rupture of the delicate skin inside the anus. Choose silicone based lubricants.
6. Create a mood
Sharing a bath or shower , sensual massage, stimulation of other erogenous zones with a slow transition to the main course in your sex menu - all this will help you both relax and get the most out of the game.
7. Monitor the process
The prostate is located at a depth of about 5 cm, from the side of the pubis. It is easily identified by touch (looks like a small rounded bulge).
Any comfortable position can be chosen for this sexual practice. It is better to massage with the index finger, gently and carefully, stroking up and down movements. With the other hand, you can fondle the testicles and penis to increase arousal.
During a massage, you should definitely ask a man whether he likes and how best to act: faster, slower, pressing harder or more accurately.
Let us remind you once again: when stimulating the prostate, in no case should it hurt! Any discomfort is a sign that something is going wrong and the game should be stopped immediately.
8. Be prepared that nothing will work out.
It is far from the fact that a man will experience an orgasm the first time. The pleasure of stimulating the prostate is an individual thing: some people like it, others do not. Moreover, massage requires some skill.
Maybe you will succeed next time. If, of course, both of you decide to continue experimenting in this area.