Lubricants or how to use them with sex toys?


When buying a sex toy, the first thing we think about is how to try it out as soon as possible and get new and unknown pleasures. This, perhaps, is our main mistake. Before using a dildo or masturbator, you need to lubricate them before intercourse. This will increase friction, allow you to penetrate deeper without any discomfort and problems.


Do not forget that lubricants and lubricants are necessary not only for comfortable self-satisfaction with sex toys but also for their safe use. Think logically: between the two partners in the process of arousal, lubrication is released, which makes sexual intercourse more pleasant. So why not use the same thing with toys?


Choosing the right lubricants


Today, water-based and silicone-based lubricants are in high demand. In the first case, these are universal means that hold under their influence almost a large part of the modern market. Silicone lubricants are also not inferior in their quality and relevance. Namely, they have such qualities as water resistance, lightness and practicality.


  • Water-based lubricants can be used with almost any type of sex toy. These can be artificial phalluses, masturbators, vibrators, rings, etc. One of the main advantages of these lubricants is easy cleaning. You just need to rinse the sex toy in warm water and there will be no lubricant left on the surface. But there are also significant drawbacks. For example, if you like to use your toys in the shower or in the bathtub, then all the water-based lubricant will go with the water.


  • silicone-based lubricants are the most preferred and practical for all types of sex. Self-satisfaction with toys is no exception. The main feature and advantage of such lubricants are water resistance. By applying a thin layer of lubricant to the surface of the toy, you can be sure that it will not be washed off in the water, for example, while showering or bathing. Another advantage of silicone-based lubricants is durability. As the friction force increases, you can add a little more to the toy and continue your fun.


  • petroleum-based lubricants are an old type of lubricant that is still in demand for some reason. As a rule, these options are most often used for anal play, since the lubricant provides easier penetration into the anus. At the same time, such lubricants should not be used with condoms or latex toys. This could damage them. It is also not recommended to use such lubricants for vaginal sex. They can cause irritation and allergies.


  • natural oil-based lubricants are one of the less expensive and less effective products. Typically, these lubricants are ideal for massage, arousal or relaxation. However, due to the naturalness of their components, you can also use similar products to lubricate the vagina, anus and toys for a more comfortable and convenient penetration inside.


One of the main questions for beginners is how much oil to use? Do not pour a lot of it. This will not make sliding better, and you may even get worn out since the toy will just slip out of your hands. It is best to experiment with dosage gradually. Try pouring a small amount (10 ml) into the palm of your hand and rub the oil over the toy. Do this slowly and carefully. Add more if necessary. If the toy is painful when it enters your body, add a little more lubricant.


What shouldn't you do?


Another serious misconception in the use of lubricants is pouring a substance onto the body or an area of ​​intimate area. This can cause some unpleasant sensations - chill, trembling. It is best to put a little lubricant on the palm of your hand, warm it up and grind it, and only then apply it to the vagina or anus, to the penis. Apply oil in small doses. Check if the grease is hot or irritating.


In some cases, it happens that certain preservatives or additives in lubricants can cause an allergic reaction. The result is thermal burns and other troubles. It would be nice if you consult with the seller of the sex shop, who will give you a small amount of lubricant to test before buying.


Similar action should be performed with your sex toy. No need to pour lubricant directly onto her from the bottle. This is fundamentally wrong! Read the instructions of the toy and the composition of your lubricant in advance. It is very important that it indicates with which substances and products this lubricant can be used, and with which not. In this case, you can prevent damage to the product.


Remember, using lubricants and lubricants with sex toys is not just a fad, but a commitment. Only in this case can you achieve maximum pleasure and enjoyment. This is the only way you can feel the pleasant notes of physical contact. At the same time, without harming yourself and your toy, the cost of which may be far from the smallest. And you should only choose high-quality lubricants from well-known manufacturers.