Sex toy stores offer a variety of dildos, both online and locally. Smooth steel, colourful silicone and glass dildos of all shapes and sizes are just the tip of the iceberg. You may have bought a dildo but have not yet fully mastered the technique of using it. This article will teach you everything you need to know about how to use a dildo for maximum pleasure.
Perhaps you are already quite experienced with a dildo and just want to learn a couple of new tricks, or you realize that simulating sex with this sex toy does not sufficiently stimulate the G spot while using the dildo. It doesn't matter at all. In this article, we will discuss dildo handling techniques that can help increase the pleasure of such sex and we have a couple of tips for you to get the most out of this kind of masturbation.
BEFORE YOU START
Create conditions - if you are not entirely comfortable with a bright room, close the curtains, turn off the lights and light candles before starting sex with a toy. Changing the atmosphere to a supportive one can greatly increase the level of arousal and change the mood. You can turn on light music and it is better to close the door so that no one can disturb you, and you do not worry about it.
By playing with the dildo and properly stimulating the G-spot, female ejaculation can be achieved easily. Therefore, it may be more comfortable for you to spread the towel out before starting. Open your favourite erotic magazine or website to get horny enough. The main thing is not to stain the pages with lubricant, which may be needed to play masturbation)
Choose the Right Dildo - When you choose the dildo for yourself you will be faced with a huge range of dildo shapes, sizes and types. The most important thing is that the dildo matches your needs and desires.
If you prefer harsh stimulation, then glass, metal, or wood dildos are for you. If you need extra sensations, a vibrating dildo - vibrator is for you. If you enjoy the feeling of stretching, then choose a big dildo or a pump function. Research shows that the top-selling dildos are about the size of the average male member. This means that it is the average size that is exactly what women are looking for the most. If you want to additionally stimulate the clitoris during sex, computer vibrators (rabbit vibrators) are suitable for you.
Do not forget to warm up - before you start playing with your dildo, you may need to warm up well for maximum condition. Start by manually stimulating the vagina.
If you don't have enough of your own lubricant, bring a water-based lubricant with you. Lubricant manufacturers claim significant benefits from the use of lubricants. With lubricant, an increase in arousal, sexual pleasure, desire, lubricant makes sex more fun and comfortable.
OUR FAVORITE DILDO USES
If you’re warmed up enough, then it’s time to try some very pleasant dildo handling techniques for yourself.
1. DEEP PUSH
As you learn to use a dildo or vibrator, you will learn that this technique works exactly as it sounds. Pushing along the entire length of the vagina provokes intense stimulation, especially if the sex toy is made of textured material.
A serious push requires a toy with a base that is strong enough not to bend, but at the same time, it must be too stiff. Overly soft dildos can make this action impossible. The choice of something in between will be as comfortable as possible.
2. SHORT AND SURFACE STIMULATION
Most of the sensory nerves are in the first 1/3 of your vagina, so you don't always have to push a sex toy deeply to get the most out of your masturbation. Short and quick strokes will not close your womb, and your wrist will not get too tired from this dildo/vibrator sex.
Remember that even if you can insert a dildo or vibrator 17 cm into your vagina, it doesn't mean that you should. Use the free length of the dildo to get a comfortable grip.
3. SWING
Just because your dildo might be straight doesn't mean you can't try other tricks. Rocking your dildo involves moving it back and forth at an angle so that the tip of the dildo or vibrator puts a lot of pressure on the bottom of your vagina (back wall). Therefore, if you are lying on your back, your dildo should be pointing down towards the bed as you begin to insert it.
You will get a sensation similar to trick number 1 - Deep Pushing. At the same time, this technique contributes to the stimulation of the clitoris and additional stimulation of the area around the entrance to the vagina. The swinging technique works best with dildos that flex slightly, are made of soft silicone, or toys that are curved and designed for double clitoral and vaginal stimulation.
4. DO NOT STOP ROTATING
There is a whole category of dildos known as juicers. They are made with a handle, holding on to which you can easily rotate the toy after it is inserted. Most dildos will do this until there is a sharp angle that makes you feel uncomfortable.
5. G-POINT STIMULATION
When you stimulate the G-spot using a dildo or vibrator, you will be at the top of the G-spot during the reverse motion. You can then push the dildo towards the top of your vagina (front wall) as you insert it back inside. This way you will be intensely stimulated when using hard toys made of glass, wood or metal. You can also buy special curved dildos or G-spot vibrators.
By the way, you can use the same technique while stimulating the prostate in men.
6. FIXED SENSITIVITY
It is not at all necessary to make any movement when using a dildo or vibrator. You can simply find the position of the sex toy in the vagina that is comfortable just with the dildo inserted. Leave the toy in your vagina while stimulating your clitoris to orgasm. The toy can greatly enhance orgasm even when stationary.
7. TEMPERATURE GAME
Surely you have ever played with a glass or metal dildo and your body was practically shocked because of the feeling of cold when such toys penetrate the vagina. To do this, you definitely wanted to first warm up the toys to body temperature for comfortable masturbation. Playing with temperature is simply changing the temperature of a sex toy. A cold dildo dragged over your nipples can give you a lot of fun, while a big hot dildo can relax you as much as possible.
You can easily change the temperature of a vibrator or dildo by placing it in a container with cold or hot water, or under running water (of course, if it is waterproof). Glass, metal or ceramic dildos are easily affected by the ambient temperature and are quite comfortable to play with. Products made of silicone or wood do not change their temperature too much when exposed to external factors.
Be sure to check the temperature with your hand before inserting a cold or hot sex toy, and even more so never put your toy in the microwave or oven.
8. ANAL
If you are a supporter of anal sex, then no doubt you will enjoy using a dildo for anal pleasure. Remember these precautions: use a sufficient amount of anal lubricant; clean the dildo thoroughly before starting vaginal stimulation again.
9. DOUBLE PENETRATION
Many people fantasize about double penetration, so why not try this kind of sex? There are four ways to enjoy double penetration with a dildo.
- Two dildos, one inserted vaginally, one anally.
- Dildo and butt plug.
- Dildo and fingers.
- Dildo and male member.
It is often best to try this type of sex in private to get a feel for how it is before doing it with your partner (or partners). Again, it is important to never forget to clean toys that have been used for anal sex before engaging in vaginal sex again.
10. SHOW FOR SHOW
Since men get aroused quickly enough by visual things, you can use all the dildo sex techniques in front of your partner. You can do all this while your partner is lying next to you on the bed, it can also work well via Skype, Viber, any other messenger that allows video communication if you are far from each other. You can attach a man to your game to help you handle the dildo yourself.
11. MIX AND EXPERIMENT
We don't stop talking about it, but the coolest thing you can do is try all these ideas and experiment to discover new and more enjoyable ways to use your dildo or vibrator, both on your own and during sex. You may find that deep, intense penetration gives you a convulsive orgasm, or you may find that simply stroking a dildo around your vagina sends shivers down your spine.
12. STIMULATION OF POINT A
It seems that all of our readers know about the G-spot, but most of you have never heard of the A-spot. This is another super sensitive and satisfying part of your vagina that you can use your dildo in. It sits in a similar position to the G-spot, but deeper, right next to your cervix. The most enjoyable way to enjoy A-spot stimulation is not to push the dildo or vibrator back and forth, but to hold it in one place and use constant pressure. Some women need really hard pressure to enjoy the A-Point stimulation.
PERFECT POSITION
In different poses, each of the above techniques will work differently. You may have already experimented with your partner in different positions and even found even positions using pillows. The same thing works with a dildo when you use the most comfortable position for the best self-satisfaction. If you have a tummy, short arms, or lack flexibility, then you may face some obstacles when it comes to playing with a dildo. However, you shouldn't let this stop you from finding what works for you. Nothing should stop you, just find your correct posture.
- Lying on your back - Many people usually masturbate facing the ceiling. Perhaps this position does not provide the best view, but in this case, access is easier. Try pulling your knees towards your chest to change the angle and provide more stimulation to the G-Spot. You can also place a pillow under your thighs or butt for easier access to the vagina.
- Face Down - Alternatively, you can lie face down. If you have long arms, you can play with your dildo with your arms behind your back. You can place a pillow under your thighs to lift your buttocks as high as possible for a better angle.
- On the side - Lying on your side with your legs pressed together, you will feel that the dildo has increased in size. In this position, it is much easier to masturbate than lying face down. You can keep your legs straight or bend your knees.
- Sitting - We do not mean that you have to sit in a traditional position with your feet on the floor. You can also lean your naga against a wall, place it on a table to provide unrestricted access to your dildo or vibrator. This position works great if you are enjoying the picture on your screen.
- Riding a Dildo - Suction cup dildos also offer many options for their use. You can wall-mount it in the shower for hands-free stimulation, or clip it onto a sleek table and saddle it on top. It also makes your hands free for clitoral stimulation.
FINAL THOUGHTS ON USING A DILDO OR VIBRATOR
Ignore Instructions - Oftentimes, sex toy makers make pink or purple G-spot stimulants for a female audience, while for men they use more black and blue colours. Ignore gender stereotypes if you believe that a toy designed for male anal use could be your new G-spot stimulator best friend.
You are not required to follow all of the tips for using dildos or any other sex toy.
If you enjoy stroking your clitoris with a textured vibrator with your legs closed, then why shouldn't you? Only by experimenting can you determine what works best for you and your dildo.
What if you don't like it? - Don't panic if you don't like some of the techniques. Your body can react in completely different ways at certain times. Today you enjoy the stimulation of the G-spot, and tomorrow it already annoys you. The main thing is not to despair and remember to create an intimate atmosphere and warm-up before sex.
Factors such as which phase of your menstrual cycle you are in, stress, fatigue, illness, and your personal level of arousal all affect how good or bad dildo sex is. The same thing works for traditional sex as well.
By experimenting with different methods and positions, switching to something more gentle, if your cervix is too sensitive, you open up new ways of pleasure, and masturbation does not become routine or boring.
With these methods or new sex toys, you can surprise your partner if they are acceptable to him. By trying these tips, you will be able to explain in more detail to your partner how he can satisfy you as much as possible. Almost all of them work for a real male member as well. If you have a moment of free time, then you absolutely do not need anything else to have a lot of pleasure with your dildo.
