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How to prepare for anal sex or strapon sex?

How to prepare for anal sex or strapon sex?

 

Anal sex attracts new strong sensations. But how to prepare for anal sex so that it is not only comfortable but also pleasant? There are some simple rules and life hacks that we will tell you about.

 

HOW TO PREPARE FOR ANAL SEX?

 

Anal sex is attracting more and more fans. It allows you to experience new, and most importantly, strong sensations. But it requires some simple rules and some preparation. In this video, we'll walk you through preparing for a rear entry and some tricks to make entry easier and more enjoyable.

 

Why men love anal sex

 

The first reason is, of course, physiological. The anal opening is narrower than the vagina. For women who have given birth (especially those who do not exercise their vaginal muscles), this difference is especially large. Naturally, tighter sphincter muscles give a man a stronger sensation. The inner surface of the rectum (pardon the naturalism) is also different from the vagina. With vaginal sex, the most thrilling sensations are given at the "entrance", with anal sex - along the entire "path".

 

The second point, (who would have thought) psychological. Yes, it’s psychological. First of all, it is, so to speak, the "Sovereign Syndrome". A man is pleased with the thought that he can own a woman as he wants. Also, anal sex is a higher level of trust between partners. And many men refer to this as a kind of test: "Do you really love me so much that you are ready for a lot?"

 

There are still not many psychological reasons for the love of men for anal sex, but we will not consider them, since, first of all, the purpose of this article is to figure out how to prepare a woman's ass for sex, so as not to hurt her, and maybe to give her pleasure.

 

Practical preparation of priests for sex

 

The very first and foremost part is hygienic preparation. The rectum, to put it mildly, is not a model of cleanliness. And even if you forget about the bacteria living there, and even if you plan to have sex in a condom, it will not be pleasant to contemplate the brown mass on the penis. That is, the ass needs to be rinsed. And by the way, speaking, for many girls, it is the fears of such an ending that make them refuse anal intercourse.

 

Therefore, the first step of preparation is rectal lavage. You can use a regular pharmacy enema or - specialized products

 

Even if the girl agreed, the muscles of the sphincter and rectum will react based on reflexes, and not her emotions and desires. Which, in turn, can lead to very sad consequences for the female body. Therefore, the anus must be prepared specially.

 

The anal opening is designed to push or hold faeces. Of course, “sausages” with a diameter that your device can only envy can come out of the female priests. It would seem that what is the problem, let me inside. The problem is that when you try to penetrate any foreign body inside, the muscles will purely reflexively contract, and even if gently, but go against these contractions, the result can be anal fissures, sphincter muscle stretching, and rectal damage. But there is a way out.

 

The easiest way to prepare priests for anal sex is to use various sex toys

 

Butt plugs are abundant in any sex shop. They come with and without vibration. To prepare the priests, it is better to use 2-3 plugs of different diameters (there are special sets). That is, first insert the smallest one, when the muscles get used to its size, replace it with a plug with a large diameter.

 

USE ANAL LUBRICANT ( lubricant )! This is very important, because, unlike the vagina, there is no natural lubrication in the anus, and penetration without it with a high probability can lead to microcracks in the rectum or to pain, at the very least. There are water-based and silicone-based anal lubricants. Silicone glides much better, but often such lubricants cannot be used with silicone toys, since silicone is not good friends with silicone, but there are exceptions.

 

Of course, at first glance, it doesn't look very erotic. Besides, getting used to the traffic jam takes some time. But it all depends on your imagination and how you will beat this process. Preparation with the help of traffic jams can take half an hour, but you don't have to just sit and wait, there are a lot of other pleasures. Although, of course, an option is possible when the girl herself carefully inserts a plug with a large diameter and goes about her business, and when the muscles relax and the ass is ready, she calls her beloved to have fun.

 

With a butt plug, you can walk and do household chores, so that the priest is ready for the climax of the evening. If you want to make the process more romantic and aesthetic, you can pay attention to butt plugs with rhinestones or crystals. They look like works of art, and with them, the boring preparation process will take on a new romantic meaning. Girls can wear jewellery not only in their ears. You slowly remove thin sexy laces from your beloved and on the way, the last obstacle to pleasure is a beautiful trinket shimmering in the twilight, with the help of which your beloved was preparing for your arrival. Take it out ... and here it is ... done.

 

A more difficult way is to massage the anus.

 

General body massage - well relaxes the muscles, fills them with blood, makes them elastic. It is after a good full massage that a relaxed girl is much more willing to allow any manipulations with her anus.

 

At the same time, do not limit yourself to an express back massage in 2 minutes. Get down to business responsibly, and finally, get yourself the pleasure of touching the delicate and beautiful body of your chosen one. For massage, it is better to use oils that soften the skin, make the surface slippery and facilitate sliding. You can use a variety of natural oils, such as olive oil. You can also use baby oil, which is available in any supermarket or purchase a special massage oil.

 

A good way to relax the girl's anus is to bring her to a pre-orgasmic state, that is, before you climb into the cherished hole, make the girl "good". You can make her cunnilingus, just stimulate the clitoris with your fingers or the G-spot if the girl is prone to such an orgasm. If you really try, she can relax the sphincter muscles enough to push your penis inside. ( As with anal plugs, it is imperative to use anal lubricants for any anal stimulation !) But for you to be able to perform frictions, you will most likely have to continue to constantly tease the clitoris (you can use your fingers, or for simplicity and convenience with a clitoral vibrator). Many couples practice just this kind of anal sex, when the girl is lying on her back, the man penetrates the anus with his penis, but at the same time, one of them is sure to stimulate the clitoris.

 

If you do not want all sex to be distracted by the caresses of the clitoris, you will have to do a full preparatory massage of the anus. Let us remind you about anal lubricants, because some of them, for example from HOT and PJUR firms, contain relaxing oils in their composition, which will very well help in the preparation of priests.

 

It is best to use your little finger for initial penetration. Remember, your actions should be as gradual as possible. Instead of going in right away, run your finger around the folds that form the rim of her anus. You will quickly find out if she likes it or not, because she will begin to squeeze her sphincter muscle, either to help you insert her finger in or to push it out. Slowly insert your little finger inward, all the way to the joint, then begin to make slow circular movements with your entire wrist, without moving your finger back and forth.

 

While you are doing all this, make sure to do something else that is not anal - kiss her back, stroke her buttocks - the girl should gradually relax, she should be as comfortable as possible. When she has completely tasted your little finger, you can move on to the larger finger - the index or middle. And do not spare grease!

 

With the index or middle finger, you can proceed directly to the massage. Make 20-30 movements around its circumference, gently stretching it to the sides. Haste is unacceptable. At the end of this operation, the girl and her anus should be so relaxed that your finger should be almost native inside and not meet any resistance. Therefore, we add another one, adding it to the first, so that it looks like a cross or a screw. And we repeat the above procedure. When the girl will easily and freely accept two fingers, add a third. The anus will be ready for intercourse when you can get inside with three fingers at once (index, middle and ring), folding them in a kind of tube.

 

In principle, after that, you can move on to the sweetest thing you've been waiting for. But you need to take into account the ratio of the sizes of your fingers to the penis, and look at the situation. If you are the owner of long slender fingers of a pianist and a genital organ of the size of a "big Negro", then it makes sense to work harder.

 

Also, you can use special tools to massage the anus - Anal Christmas trees They consist of some balls of different diameters, connected. Thanks to this design, the toy smoothly penetrates inside, and the embossed surface perfectly massages the inner surface of the anus. Some models are equipped with vibration to help you achieve the desired relaxation faster.

 

And do not rush to penetrate immediately to the entire depth of the penis. Do not forget about the game, caress and excitement of the girl herself. Start with the head, and looking at your partner's reaction, follow with caress and kisses every millimetre of forwarding movement.

 

In conclusion, it must be said about safety. Girls may fear that the relaxed sphincter muscles will remain relaxed with all the ensuing consequences. In refuting this misconception, one can cite an example of a regular massage or SPA procedure. Yes, you are very relaxed and lie just like jelly. But now you get up and go home, the muscles regain their original tone in 15 minutes, and after a few hours, there is no trace of the former relaxation.

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