Bondage: common sexual bondage myths

 

You can diversify sex in a couple in different ways. Bondage - The bondage of a partner can be used to push boundaries in sex. Restriction of mobility will give new emotions to all participants in the process.

 

Bondage can be practiced in any room: in a tent outdoors, in an equipped dungeon, in your favorite home bedroom or a cozy hotel. The possibilities of this type of erotic art are endless, it is worth trying it once, and you can forever remain an admirer of this practice and avoid everyday sex.

 

What is bondage?

 

Bondage is one of the popular BDSM sexual practices. His technique is to immobilize one partner of the other by tying. To do this, the game uses ropes, gags so that the partner cannot speak, bandages or masks on the face, latex or clothes made from it. These actions increase the sensitivity of the body and allow you to get aroused faster. Important note: both partners in a pair experience satisfaction from the game.

 

You don't have to be an ass in BDSM and have a set of bondage devices in your arsenal. In order to restrict the movement of your partner, you can use a ribbon or scarf, belt or stockings, or at worst, a tie.

 

There are many binding options. Basic: tying the wrists to the bedside back or tying the partner's hands behind the back by any means at hand. The main thing is to keep the golden mean, the knot should not be very tight, but there is no need to make it weak, otherwise the partner will not have time to understand and feel anything. It must be remembered that the tied player gets tired quickly, so it is important for the active partner to watch the submissive partner and, at the first sign, to release him.

 

Bondage myths

 

Bondage is gaining immense recognition among fans of this type of sex games, but distorted ideas about it remain no less interesting.

 

Myth 1. Bondage is pain and violence

 

To dispel this myth, it is necessary to define the word "violence", for example in Wikipedia: "forced sexual activity or the use of sexuality of another person." And now let's consider the basic principles of BDSM sex role playing games, which are voluntariness, rationality and safety. These principles are in no way consistent with the concept of sexual violence and pain. Practice improves relationships, and boundaries are negotiated in advance, everything happens by mutual agreement.

 

Myth 2. Bondage is a perversion

 

A pervert is a person whose actions and sexual inclinations are contrary to the ethical and social norms of society and have a perverse character. With regard to bondage practices, there is no question of perversion from the point of view of morality, since both partners receive sexual pleasure, then only they can judge their tastes and preferences. Nothing else matters. Both the passive and the active participant in the game receive unrealistic emotions and satisfy their sexual fantasy. If the presence of such a practice in their intimate sphere is acceptable to them, this is no longer a perversion. Moreover, more often than not, couples come to bondage, burdened with a long sexual experience and dreaming of diversifying their love relationships.

 

Myth 3. Bondage is abnormal and only one of the partners gets pleasure

 

Who in the modern world can say with precision what is normal and what is not? Especially if we talk about sex and its variations. Both men and many women are attracted by the opportunity to try the unknown. During bondage, a woman feels weak, helpless, and enjoys the feeling of a strong partner in the role of a male next to her. The man gains power over his partner, and it is unrealistic to turn him on. There are times when a couple changes roles: a man wants to be weak and obey, while a woman, on the contrary, has a great desire to dominate a partner. Everyone has their own desires and their own ways of achieving orgasm.

 

Myth 4. Bondage is sexual slavery

 

Bondage is not slavery or addiction. This is a sexual game with elements of coercion! The desire of both partners to receive mutual satisfaction and fulfill their fantasies cannot be called a painful addiction. As in any game, both partners play their roles and use signs or stop words when it is necessary to interrupt it.

 

Bondage, of course, can lead to a certain addiction, although this happens very rarely. If a person cannot get pleasure without bondage, then with this problem he needs to go to a specialist.

 

Myth 5. People who are addicted to bondage are mentally disturbed.

 

Time never stands still: attitudes, morals and norms change. With the expansion of sexual boundaries and the removal of "moral" prohibitions on certain types of intimate life, many lovers have a desire to experiment. It is not a violation of the psyche that people want to learn the unknown and try it on themselves.

 

Sexual bondage is very exciting, and if suddenly there is boredom or the desire to get more thrills from sex - you need to include "bondage" in your games. The basis of bondage is unconditional trust between partners who, with the help of it, can discover completely unknown degrees of arousal, look differently at a partner as a sexual object, and get unique impressions. Start experimenting, and this will provide an opportunity to gain experience and diversify the couple's sex life.